Dropping Anchor: Coping with Change
- caliskanhida
- Aug 25, 2024
- 2 min read
Updated: Oct 13, 2024
Life is full of changes, some planned and others unexpected. These transitions can be overwhelming and leave us feeling adrift. Imagine dropping anchor in a stormy sea, finding a steady point to hold onto amidst the chaos. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) offers a similar sense of stability, helping us navigate life's ups and downs with greater resilience and peace of mind.
By focusing on being present, doing what matters, and opening up, you can learn to navigate change with greater ease and resilience. This is what we call the ACT triflex.
1. Being Present
Mindfulness: Pay attention to the here and now without judgment. Notice your thoughts, feelings, and sensations without getting caught up in them.
Grounding Techniques: Engage your senses to bring yourself back to the present moment. For example, focus on the sounds you hear, the sensations you feel, or the things you see.
2. Doing What Matters
Identify Your Values: What is truly important to you? What do you want your life to be about?
Take Action: Commit to actions that align with your values, even if they are challenging or uncomfortable.
Persistence: Remember that change takes time. Be patient with yourself and keep moving forward.
3. Opening Up
Accepting Difficult Emotions: Acknowledge and accept your feelings without judgment. Avoid trying to suppress or avoid them.
Expressing Yourself: Find healthy ways to express your emotions, such as talking to a trusted friend or family member, journaling, or engaging in creative activities.
Seeking Support: If you're struggling to cope with change on your own, consider seeking professional help from a therapist or counselor.
By practicing these ACT strategies, you can learn to embrace change, reduce anxiety, and enhance your overall well-being. Remember, it's okay to feel overwhelmed or anxious during times of transition. The important thing is to stay grounded, focused on what matters, and open to the possibility of growth and transformation.
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